I have started calling Nenek "Emak". She used to be Nenek to me but now when someone asks me who Emak is, I would point to Nenek. Whenever I want to give Nenek a hug, I would endearingly address her as "Emak" before giving her a big fat hug. You see, I'm very confused. Everyone at home calls her Emak but they make me call her Nenek. Why? I don't understand it so I have decided that I do not want to be different and from now on, I shall address her just like how everyone else does. But the thing is, if Nenek is Emak, then does that make Emak Kakak???